As the Holidays approach and stress level builds here are a series of helpful himts contributed by Jessica McBrearty one of the many Wedding Planners and Sales Associates at Drexelbrook Catering
Most of my articles are about being the “hostess with the mostess”, but Thanksgiving is fast approaching and slaving in the kitchen all day long while nursing a turkey to perfection is just not my style! Besides, for as long as I can remember Thanksgiving has been hosted by my parents…so who I am to mess with tradition?
Though I am not big on hosting Thanksgiving, there is no feast I love more! When I close my eyes and think “Thanksgiving” I can hear the laughter of family and friends around the table, smell aromas of roast turkey, cinnamon and nutmeg, and truly feel grateful and blessed for all that I have.
Not to toot my own horn, but I think I happen to be one heck of a party guest. Below you’ll find seven key tips and ideas on how to be the ideal holiday guest. Follow these, and you’ll surely receive an invitation to this fabulous feast year after year.
Tip Number 1 ~ Never arrive empty handed.
When you’re a guest at someone’s house it’s customary to present the host or hostess with a token of your appreciation. Most of us bring a nice bottle of wine, which is always a good choice...but don’t be afraid to get a little creative. A chocolate fan would certainly love a box of luxury dark chocolates and someone who entertains often would gladly accept a set of cute, kitchy or fun cocktail napkins. Whatever may fit your host’s personality, they’ll definitely appreciate you thinking of them.
Tip Number 2 ~ Timing is everything.
Unless previously arranged, arrive on time! Your host has been preparing for their gathering all day and very likely right up until the last minute. So, give them the respect of showing up at the invited time. Think it’s okay to be fashionably late? Sorry... there’s no such thing during the holidays!
Tip Number 3 ~ To dress, or not to dress [appropriately, that is]...
If you’re going to your parents, siblings, cousins, etc, the attire precedent has probably already been set and you know exactly what to wear. However, everyone celebrates differently (and at different times of the day), so if you’re going to a neighbor, colleague or friend’s place, appropriate attire may be a bit harder to discern. The age old rule tells us that it’s better to be overdressed then under-dressed, but being too over-the-top (sequin bubble dress, anyone?) may earn you the nickname “Lady Gaga” for the next year. So, avoid all the drama and get it just right... simply pick up the phone and ask; your hosts will be happy to tell you exactly what they expect.
Tip Number 4 ~ Get comfortable, but not too comfortable.
Proper etiquette dictates that you should plan to stay at least an hour after dinner, unless travel plans or sleepy kids will make this difficult. Anyone who has hosted a party knows it can be challenging to kick back and relax until the dinner portion of the evening has concluded. So, give your host the opportunity to catch up with you and other guests in a more comfortable fashion. However, there does come a point in the night where things start to wind down. Be mindful that, for some, this has been a very long day and please don’t be “that” guest who overstays their welcome.
Tip Number 5 ~ Potluck? Lucky You!
Potluck dinners can actually be a lot of fun. Often times the host/hostess will prepare the main course and rely on their fantastic guests to bring the accompaniments. This is your time to shine! Before deciding what to bring, ask your host about oven space; it may be limited, so consider preparing a dish that will not require reheating. Also, keep in mind the crowd you’re cooking for and don’t hesitate to inquire about any known allergies or dietary restrictions. This will probably set you apart from the rest of the guests and will truly be appreciated by all. If you’re making your specialty, this task should be an easy one. However, if you’re planning to try out a new recipe, find yourself a guinea pig and allow plenty of time for tweaking. On the other hand, if you’re really not into cooking (or cleaning), or just don’t have the time, call up your favorite restaurant or caterer and ask about their holiday menu. Pick the dish up ahead of time, transfer to a pretty platter or bowl and feel free to take all the credit...
Tip Number 6 ~ Get crafty [with your kids].
If your kids are like mine, it takes some creative efforts to keep their active minds busy. So, when you’re heading out the door grab some crafts or games to bring with you. Your host will have their hands full entertaining the adults, so please do not rely on them to entertain your kids, too! One easy idea is to go online, print out Thanksgiving coloring pages (it’s free) and bring these with crayons and Thanksgiving stickers. The kiddies will love it (and so will you)! You may also ask your little ones to give your hosts one of their creations as a thank you. It’s a wonderful way to instill the meaning of Thanksgiving by explaining how thankful you are to have such wonderful, generous and caring family and/or friends.
Tip Number 7 ~ Say “yes” to leftovers.
If you’re anything like me, your turkey addiction starts at Thanksgiving and doesn’t end until the new year. Not only can taking some turkey, mashed potatoes or yams off your host’s hands help to keep their fridge organized, it can actually save you hours in the kitchen over the next week. There are plenty of amazing leftover recipes out there... a few of my [super simple] favorites are Sweet Potato Muffins, Turkey, Apple & Cheddar Grilled Cheese and Turkey Shepherds Pie. So, when your host/hostess offers you leftovers, for goodness sake say “yes”; it’s clearly win-win!
Armed with these seven tips I guarantee you’ll be the most generous, prompt, best dressed, respectful, popular, creative, inventive & accommodating guest in the world. I wish you all a very happy and safe Thanksgiving!
And Remember…
Be Creative & Have Fun!
Jessica
Would you like these recipes? Do you have a question or suggestion? Email me at Jessica@Drexelbrookcatering.com
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